When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern.

The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now. Relationships must be like islands, one must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits – islands, surrounded and interrupted by the sea, and continually visited and abandoned by the tides.

-Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Total - Can’t You See (feat. Biggie)

I miss the 90s…no one makes music like this anymore.

…so far away…

"We’ve got to learn hard things in our lifetime, but it’s love that gives you the strength. It’s being nice to people and having a lot of fun and laughing harder than anything, hopefully every single day of your life."

Homophobes

joshmohrer:

They are cowards. They stand in the way of progress and equality for all people. They span both parties and their future opponents deserve our support.

The following bigots NY State Senators hate gay people:

Joe Addabbo (D)

Jim Alesi (R)

Darrel Aubertine (D)

John Bonacic (R)

John DeFrancisco (R)

Ruben Diaz Sr. (D)

Hugh Farley (R)

John Flanagan (R)

Chuck Fuschillo (R)

Marty Golden (R)

Joe Griffo (R)

Kemp Hannon (R)

Shirley Huntley (D)

Owen Johnson (R)

Carl Kruger (D)

Andrew Lanza (R)

Bill Larkin (R)

Ken LaValle (R)

Vincent Leibell (R)

Tom Libous (R)

Betty Little (R)

Carl Marcelli(R)

George Maziarz (R)

Roy McDonald (R)

Hiram Monserrate (D)

Tom Morahan (R)

Mike Nozzolio (R)

George Onorato (D)

Frank Padavan (R)

Mike Ranzenhofer (R)

Joe Robach (R)

Steve Saland (R)

Jim Seward (R)

Dean Skelos (R)

Bill Stachowski (D)

Dale Volker (R)

George Winner (R)

Cathy Young (R)

Reblogged from Less is Mohrer.